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Silver Lining Of Your Cloud
Life Quotes and Sayings
Ego
Spiritual awakening is about waking up from your ego. It is not about
awakening the ego. ~Sampo Kaasila
The ultimate freedom from the nonexistent ego is to see that it is actually
irrelevant. ~Adyashanti
Why aren’t you happy? It’s because ninety-nine percent of everything you do,
and think, and say, is for youself–and there isn’t one. ~Wu Wei Wu
No man is free until he is free at the center. When he lets go there, he is free
indeed. ~E. Stanley Jones
Are you still thinking, looking, living, as from an imaginary phenomenal
center? As long as you do that you can never recognize your freedom. ~Wei
Wu Wei
Ego (is) an illusional sense of selfhood which causes the soul to feel that it is
independent–separate from the one field of Consciousness. ~Roy Eugene
Davis
Ego is the movement of the mind toward objects of perception, in the form of
grasping; and, away from objects, in the form of aversion…This movement of
grasping and aversion gives rise to a sense of a separate “me,” and in turn the
sense of “me” strengthens itself this way. ~Adyashanti
Ego is a slippery fellow, intent on survival at all costs. ~Lama Surya Das
What defines the unawake self more than anything else is its total and absolute
fascination with itself. ~Adyashanti
What we really desire is not the object, because if it were, its possession would
eliminate all desire. What is desired is bliss, which exists at all times in myself
and everything. The realisation of this bliss was lost to me when I became a
separate ego, thereby losing sight of my essential identity with it. ~Jean Klein
If you try to win the war with your mind, you’ll be at war forever. ~Arvis Joen
Justi
To ask the mind to kill itself is like making the thief the policeman. He will go
with you and pretend to catch the thief, but nothing will be gained. So you
must turn inward and see where the mind rises from, and then it will cease to
exist. ~Ramana Maharshi
I would define the ego as a concept originating from the “I am” experience,
pure being without attributes, the absolute certitude we have that we exist.
When I conceptualize this experience, I name it “I” or “I am”. There is nothing
wrong with the pure concept “I am”. The ego comes in the moment I say “I am
this or that”. The “this or that” superimposes a limitation onto something that,
up until now, was limitless. ~Francis Lucille
Seekers continue to practice all kinds of self-torture without realizing that such
‘spiritual practice’ is a reinforcement of the very ego that prevents them from
their natural, free state. ~Ramesh Balsekar
In the gradual approach you are bound to the mind. The mind is under the
illusion that if it changes, alters, stops, etc., it will be absorbed in what is
beyond it. This misconception leads to the most tragic state in which a truth-
seeker can find himself: he has bound himself in his own web, a web of the
most subtle duality. ~Jean Klein
People say “I want peace.” If you remove I {ego}, and your want {desire},
you are left with peace. ~Satya Sai Baba
To ask for the omission of your name is as much egoism as to desire its
inclusion. ~Ramana Maharshi
The world spins, but not around you. ~Jasper Comstock
W.A.R stands for “We Are Right!” ~anonymous
Being preoccupied with our self-image is like…coming upon a tree of singing
birds whlie wearing earplugs. ~Pema Chodron
Do not feed your ego and your problems with your attention. Slowly, surely,
the ego will lose weight, until one fine day it will be nothing but a thin ghost
of its former self. You will be able to see right through it, to the divine
presence that shines in each of us. ~Eknath Easwaran
As you identify less and less with the “me”, you will be more at ease with
everybody and with everything. Do you know why? Because you are no
longer afraid of being hurt or not liked. You no longer desire to impress
anyone. Can you imagine the relief when you don’t have to impress anybody
anymore? Oh, what a relief. Happiness at last! ~Anthony de Mello
In order to see, you have to stop being in the middle of the picture.
~Aurobindo Ghose
The ego tends to manifest as a powerful urge to be right. ~Derek Lin
The entire root of your problem is that you cannot get outside of yourself.
~Francis Fenelon
Pride erects a little kingdom of its own, and acts as sovereign of it. ~William
Hazlitt
It is the ego that has a jarring effect upon life. ~Hazrat Inayat Khan
Only the ego makes its own demise seem dramatic. ~Adyashanti
No ego, no pain. ~Chien-Ju
The more vanity a person has the less sympathy he has for others, for all his
attention is given to his own satisfaction, and he is blind toward others.
~Hazrat Inayat Khan
Hell is being caught in ego. ~Carl Jung
A person wrapped up in himself makes a small package. ~Harry Emerson
Fosdick
Spiritual pride is the most dangerous and the most arrogant of all sorts of
pride. ~Samuel Richardson
The Ego is an exquisite instrument. Enjoy it, use it–just don’t get lost in it.
~Ram Dass
When men are most sure and arrogant they are commonly most mistaken.
~David Hume
My mind was full of the misty fumes of doubt. ~Zora Neale Hurston
When you feel the need arise to be defensive about anything, you have
identified yourself with an illusion. ~A Course in Miracles
The demand to be loved is the greatest of all arrogant assumptions. ~Friedrich
Nietzche
Wat we pretend to be defending as the “truth” is really our own self-esteem.
~Thomas Merton
It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.
~Harry S. Truman
Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a
dependency of our self-esteem. If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the
back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge. ~Fritz Perls
Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we
focus on ourselves, our world contracts as our problems and preoccupations
loom large. ~Daniel Goleman
We take refuge in pride because we are afraid to tell the truth to ourselves.
~Kakuzo Okakura
When one begins to practice simplicity, the ego is deprived of the very
strategy by which it sustains itself. Nothing will deflate the ego more
effectively than to be recognized for what it is. It lives by pretension. It dies
when the mask is torn away and the stark reality is exposed to the gaze of
others. ~Albert E. Day
How long will you tread the circling tracks of mind around your little self and
petty things? ~Aurobindo Ghose
Our ego would rather cling to what is known rather than let go and set itself
free. ~Carlos Casteneda
I long to escape the prison of my ego and lose myself in you. ~Rumi
Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself. ~Rumi
How do you let go of attachment to things? Don’t even try. It’s impossible.
Attachment to things drops away by itself when you no longer seek to find
yourself in them. ~Eckhart Tolle
Let’s trade in all our judging for appreciating. Let’s lay down our
righteousness and just be together. ~Ram Dass
Look at the optimism of nature. Nothing can stop it. Only the ego makes
humans pessimistic, and this causes suffering. ~Amma
It’s very hard to grow, because it’s difficult to let go of the models of ourselves
in which we’ve invested so heavily. ~Ram Dass
You will feel like an onion: skin after skin, subterfuge after subterfuge, is
pulled off to find no kernel at the center. Which is the whole point: to find out
that the ego is indeed a fake–a wall of defense around a wall of defense …
around nothing. ~Ibid
When we are empty of ego we, too, can carry on in calm acceptance of life’s
varying events. When we cease making prejudicial distinctions–gentle or
harsh, beautiful or ugly, good or bad–a peaceful stillness will permeate our
mind. If there is no ego, there is no agitation. ~Master Han Shan